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Still here. Losing my voice...both my voice and my physical voice. I know the physical is related to the plague, but it's still annoying. Because, it's beyond challenging to interact with my daughter without speaking. Actually, for me, it's impossible. 'Cause not speaking is remarkably difficult for me. I can talk to Jeff on AIM, but for some reason, can't do that with Sam. ;)

But, I am here. And if you need me, let me know.

Love to all of you.

Gessi

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Hope your voice comes back soon!! Is your throat sore?

Using nonverbals with a young child can actually be pretty rewarding. I've had to do it at several points, either for a few days (nasty cold) or for weeks on end (after my thyroid surgery). The kids adapted remarkably fast to the new system, and as a bonus they were far more attentive to subtle nonverbal cues (raised eyebrow, frown) for some time afterward. When recovering from the surgery (it took about 3 months for my voice to return to 'adequate'), I'd get their attention by:

1. snapping fingers (if they were nearby and being relatively quiet)
2. clapping hands (same room but lots of noise... I use this as a matter of course instead of yelling to be heard above them)
3. knocking on the wall (different room and I want them to come to me for communication)

Best quote of the post-surgery period: "No, stop that now or you'll get us all in big trouble! LOOK, Mom has her ANGRY EYES!"

I am, however, biased toward nonverbal communication because my brain just isn't wired all that well for speech. I'd much, MUCH rather type than speak.

**hugs** for speedy recovery!

Can you make a few signs for certain activities, like eating and drinking and taking a nap, etcetera? Jeff could help you translate when he's around, until Sammy gets the idea. A good _written sign_ to have is one that says SHOW ME ..... it would give Sammy a chance to ask you to act out what _you_ need or want, so that she can understand what you are trying to 'say'.

What your friends want for you is getting healthy again ASAP1 Hugs...

I hope you feel better soon!

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