Cleolinda's put into words, very clearly, what I've been thinking, off and on, for ages. Try parting your hair differently for a few weeks and see if your self-image doesn't change a bit ~ in my case, it suddenly seemed as though I both knew and LIKED the person I was seeing in the mirror. Not more beautiful or younger or un-wrinkled, but recognizable as ME, the me I have been since I was born and a validation that I am still 'true' to my inborn nature. That was a BIGGIE!!